What an awesome day. I can’t express enough how good God is in so many ways. I have been kind of ho-hum the past couple of days. Work is keeping me very occupied. I’m simultaneously trying to catch up from being out for most of the previous 2 weeks (tumor week and July 4th holiday) as well as trying to get ahead so that when I hand things off to the person who will back me up while I’m out everything will be in good order.
I have a new perspective on work now – I would say that I now work to live instead of living to work. I could easily turn into a workaholic. I see the tendencies in me. I strive for perfection and it does feel good to do a good job and be successful. But now I find that I would prefer to do a good job at being a husband and a dad. I’ve seen too many people close to me get hurt by giving too much of themselves to their work and not enough of themselves to the ones that love them. And so now I look at my job responsibilities as just another way that I can express my devotion to Jesus. I work hard to do a job that would honor the Lord and therefore gain credibility and gain a foundation with those I work with. I don’t go the extra million miles, but I do the best that I feel that I can within a reasonable work day. It is more of a conscious effort now to work hard to glorify the Lord and then leave it at the office so I can go home and continue to glorify him as a husband and dad. It is a paradigm shift for me, but I find that life is so much more rewarding than before. I definitely know that my job is a total blessing from the Lord in so many ways. I can see his hand moving in my life even when I was too preoccupied to take the time to notice and praise Him. How selfish we can be sometimes, thinking that anything on this earth is a product purely of our own efforts. I mean if you really want to get into the nitty gritty on things, if God didn’t allow us to take our next breath then we wouldn’t be able to do even one more thing!
But I digress. I mention my job because it has been taking up a lot of my time this week and I really do have a new appreciation for how much I am blessed to be where I am.
I am also blessed by a TREMENDOUS prayer network. I have so many friends and family members and perhaps people I don’t even know praying for me. It is quite amazing to me, really. I am so thankful for all of you who are standing with me in prayer through this trial and fire. I get a bit choked up when I think of those that are taking time to actually bring me and my family before the Lord. I don’t feel worthy, I don’t feel like I deserve it. But you know, my wife gave me some awesome insight. I was sharing this with her and she said, “You know what Niel, you’re right. You’re not worthy. No one is. Only Jesus is worthy.” Man, I love her. She is my keel in life providing me the stability that I need. Without a keel a sailboat would just flip over when the wind blows hard. So it is with me – when the winds of life are howling it is my wife who keeps me upright.
I have learned through friends and family that my initial emails have been forwarded to a lot of people. My dad had an old friend approach him who was one of my old high school teachers, who he didn’t directly forward the email to! How amazing! They told him that they are praying for me and that their church is praying for me. I feel so overwhelmed with gratitude at the thought of all of the people that care enough to be lifting me and my family up. It is so awesome to see the body of Christ at work! I feel privileged that God is allowing me to go through this experience and to witness His glory first hand in a new and wonderful way. Never before have I been so directly impacted by prayer. I can actually feel my spirit being lifted through everyone’s prayers. It is just a cool thing. I may have had times where I second guessed the power of prayer before this experience, but God has quickly and decisively changed me in that regard for sure.
I am also blessed by the support I’ve gotten from family in so many ways. My wife’s parents have been very encouraging and supportive. My mom is constantly sending me emails and notes to brighten my day. I can’t even begin to list all that they are doing for me. My dad has really gone out of his way and is such a blessing. The conversations we have now are so refreshing to me. He is going to pay to have my grass cut for us. And he is doing so many other things as well. I really feel that I’m growing closer to him through this and that is so cool for me. If I go through this whole ordeal just to bring him closer to the Lord and just to allow us to have a closer relationship then this is certainly worth it all. I am just so excited at how God is working. I can’t help but feel overwhelmed with joy and unworthy in so many ways.